How to Choose Your Perfect Country to Live and Thrive

Create a life of ease, wealth, and freedom abroad with personalized insights and strategies for finding your ideal destination and lifestyle.

How to Choose Your Perfect Country to Live and Thrive

If you could wave a magic wand and create your dream place to live—a life of ease, joy, and abundance—what would you prioritize? Would it be community, cost of living, safety, or something else entirely?

I’m L., and I help women who want more out of life create wealth and ease by listening to their inner wisdom and living their dreams. Today, I’m sharing how I’m choosing my next country to live in after traveling to and living in 26 countries.

By the end of this video, you’ll have a clear framework to create your dream destination—or design a life aligned with your deepest desires wherever you are.


Lessons From Living in/Traveling to 26 Countries

Every place I’ve lived has revealed more about what I need to feel at home. From Rwanda to Mexico, Thailand to the U.S., each experience has shaped my understanding of what alignment looks like for me.

Key Takeaways From Past Adventures:

  • Rwanda: Beautiful, sunny, and safe with a vibrant Black culture. But I learned that community and connection are just as important as safety and beauty.
  • Mexico: Everyday luxuries like spa treatments and delicious meals were affordable and accessible, creating an effortless sense of ease.
  • Thailand: A medical tourism haven with high-quality, affordable healthcare and a culture rooted in joy and kindness.
  • United States: While it offers convenience, it doesn’t align with my vision of ease, freedom, or a well-supported life.

My Criteria for Choosing My Next Country

Choosing where to live—or designing your ideal life—requires clarity and intention. Here are my non-negotiables:

1. Community and Connection

I thrive in warm, inclusive communities with Black expat networks where it’s easy to plug in and feel at home.

2. Safety and Healthcare

Feeling safe physically, emotionally, and financially is essential. High-quality, affordable healthcare is a must, especially after experiencing medical emergencies abroad.

3. Ease and Everyday Luxuries

Daily luxuries—like spa visits, yoga, and beautiful meals—should feel simple and accessible, not out of reach.

4. Cultural Warmth

I value societies where kindness is a cultural norm and connection feels genuine, not transactional.

5. Accessibility and Travel

Living in a travel hub with seamless connections to nearby countries adds ease and adventure to my life.


The Power of Intentional Dreaming

Designing a new life isn’t just about logistics; it’s about aligning with what truly matters to you. These three questions have guided my process, and they can help you too:

  1. What kind of lifestyle do I want to live?
    For me, it’s wealth, ease, freedom, and luxury without needing to be ultra-rich.
  2. How much support do I need, and what does that look like?
    Do you need community, healthcare access, or simply a peaceful environment?
  3. What challenges am I willing to navigate for the dream I want?
    Be honest about your limits and what you’re willing to sacrifice—or not.

Next Steps: How to Start Designing Your Dream Life

You don’t need to figure it all out alone. Whether you’re dreaming of moving abroad, redefining your lifestyle, or magnetizing abundance into your life, here are two ways we can work together to make it happen:

1. Sacred No: Divine Yes

This 15-minute audio activation is your gateway to creating healthy boundaries that align with your desires. It helps you step into your power by saying no to what drains you and yes to what lights you up. Perfect for women who are ready to effortlessly magnetize wealth, ease, and prosperity.

Healthy boundaries aren’t about restriction—they’re about freedom. Say no to struggle and yes to the life you’ve always dreamed of. Get started here: Sacred No: Divine Yes.

2. Insight Hour

If you’re craving personalized guidance, this one-on-one session is for you. Together, we’ll map out your vision, clear obstacles, and design a step-by-step plan that feels doable and aligned.

Insight Hour is a sacred space to ask your most pressing questions and gain clarity about your next chapter. Whether you’re moving abroad or simply craving more flow and alignment, I’ll help you create a life that feels like yours. Book your session here: Insight Hour.


Reflection Prompt

What’s the first thing you’d look for in a new community or country? Food, lifestyle, cost of living? Or something else entirely? Let me know in the comments below!


Your dream life is closer than you think. It starts with one aligned step and the courage to say yes. Whether it’s setting a boundary, choosing a destination, or investing in support, the life you want is within reach.

Ready to take the leap? Start with Sacred No: Divine Yes or book an Insight Hour to design your next chapter.

Your life of ease, wealth, and freedom is calling. Will you answer? ✨

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